Let’s talk about a situation that’s way more common than it should be: getting into a car with someone who’s been drinking. Maybe it’s a friend, a family member, or even a date. You might think, “I’m not the one driving, so I’m fine, right?” Well… not so fast. The truth is, being in a car with a drunk driver can land you in some seriously hot water—even if you’re just the passenger. Let’s break it down.
The Short Answer: Yes, You Can Get In Trouble
While you’re not the one behind the wheel, you’re still making a choice to get into a car with someone who’s clearly impaired. And depending on where you live, that choice can have legal consequences. It’s not just about the driver getting a DUI—you could face penalties too, especially if things go south.
How Could You Get in Trouble?
So, what kind of trouble could you actually be in? Let’s break it down—here are a few ways this situation could take a turn for the worse:
1. Legal Consequences
In some places, knowingly getting into a car with a drunk driver can be considered aiding or enabling drunk driving. Yeah, you read that right. Even if you’re not the one driving, you could still be held accountable for putting yourself (and others) in danger. Penalties might include fines, community service, or even a mark on your record.
2. Liability In An Accident
If the drunk driver causes an accident, you could be held partially responsible—especially if you knew they were drunk and didn’t try to stop them. This could mean legal battles, financial liability, or even being sued by other people involved in the crash. Not exactly the kind of drama you want in your life.
3. Moral Responsibility
This one’s not about the law, but it’s just as important. If you get into a car with a drunk driver and something terrible happens, you’ll have to live with the guilt of knowing you could’ve done something to prevent it. Trust me, that’s a heavy burden to carry.
What Should You Do Instead?
If you find yourself in this situation, don’t panic. Here’s what you can do to stay safe—and out of trouble:
1. Speak Up
If the driver has been drinking, say something. It might feel awkward, but it’s way better than risking your safety (and theirs). Try something like, “Hey, I don’t think you’re in any shape to drive. Let’s call a ride instead.”
2. Call A Ride
Uber, Lyft, a taxi, or even a sober friend—there are so many options these days. If the driver insists on driving, offer to call them a ride or pay for it yourself. Honestly, it’s a tiny cost compared to the relief of knowing you made the right call.
3. Take The Keys
If the driver is really out of it, you might need to step in and take their keys. Yeah, it’s bold, but it’s also the right thing to do. You could be saving lives—including your own.
4. Walk Away
If the driver refuses to listen and you’re not comfortable being in the car, don’t get in. It’s not worth the risk. Call someone else to pick you up or find another way home.
What If You’re Already In The Car?
If you’re already in the car and realize the driver is drunk, ask them to pull over safely. If they won’t, call someone for help or even 911 if you feel unsafe. It might feel extreme, but it’s better than ending up in a dangerous situation.
The Bottom Line
Getting into a car with a drunk driver is never a good idea—not just for your safety, but also because it can lead to legal and moral consequences. If you’re ever in this situation, speak up, call a ride, or walk away. It might feel uncomfortable in the moment, but it’s way better than the alternative.
Remember, your safety (and the safety of others) is way more important than avoiding an awkward conversation. So, next time you’re faced with this situation, make the smart choice. You’ll thank yourself later.
